Grab and hide rule is not working while you’re trying to fix your life with someone. Punish and run away principle is more effective though isn’t worthy of following.
If something comes out of you, don’t destroy it but frame into beauty and harmony. And if it is not, just make yourself a butterbread, sit on a soft armchair, a pillow of dreams under you knees, and give it a try to make up some amazing story of parallel universe. You’ll see, it’s much of fun, yeah.







